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MONTHLY FEATURE
What
is the Parent as Cognitive Mentor Methodology?
By The Rev. Gilberto Rosado
Psychotherapist (authorized in
New York State), Creator of the Cognitive Mentoring Therapy Method,
Founding Member of I.A.C.M.P.T., I.A.C.M.T.,
Pastor: The Sheepfold
Pentecostal Church (Iglesia Pentecoastal El Redil, Inc.),
World Black Church
for Power, Progress & Peace
Courses: Cognitive Mentoring Therapist Certification I, II -
Child Cognitive Mentoring Therapist Certification - Pastoral
Cognitive Mentor Therapy Certification I, II - Understanding the
Bible & Religious Philosophy - Natural Success Course &
Seminar Series -
Newest
Course: Parent as Cognitive Mentor - www.arithmetaiuniversity.org
This
methodology is based on cognitive thinking as a basis for correcting the
lack of problem solving skills in society which is the reason or cause to
most of society’s problems.
Parent As Cognitive Mentor is a training
course designed to teach the application of proper elements, pressure and
motivation to a child in order to promote confidence in knowledge, emotion
and awareness of your child of the stability and other conditions that
each member must contribute to the family as a whole. Cognitive Mentoring
is an intentional proactive and interactive activity.
In any intervention, it is necessary that the mentor have greater
understanding than the individual being mentored. The parent must be
trained in the art of transmitting their greater knowledge to their young
children, guiding their learning in a proper manner, help develop their
thinking patterns and capacity, and to stop doing those things that most
parents do that hinder their child's capacity for learning throughout
life. Most parents make the same mistakes over and over again.
In addition, parents of "smart" kids could still have smarter kids by
avoiding the same pitfalls! And one must remember the many instances
of Harvard grads who commit atrocious acts we see on the news (like that
MD that carved his name into a patients abdomen - really bright, huh?).
The parent as cognitive mentor method teaches you how to instill the right
structure to enhance learning and foster right actions throughout life!
This knowledge gives a parent the
advantage and power over any and all situations that may arise and that
indeed do. This knowledge, as it is in cognitive therapy itself, is the
defense in any and all situations that the parent may encounter.
The proper elements are:
1. Knowledge
2. Reasoning
3. Understanding
4. Training
The KRUT & REKRUT (pronounced recruit) system is the basis of cognitive
transference and is the core technology of this process and therapy.
You
will notice that the first three elements are mental - having to do with
the intellect. The fourth element is action or activity oriented. The
reason for this is simple. Just because a person may know, understand and
reason what or how to react in a given situation, does not ensure that he
or she actually knows the HOW of solving the situation – the action of
what to do and /or have the sufficient skill in performing the action of
solving the issue. This is where the parent as cognitive mentor trains the
child in practical actions and activity that reinforces problem solving.
Unfortunately, the majority of children
neither get the first three nor the last one - what they do get is often
wrong and insufficient causing them to become adults with the problems we
are trying to help them solve.
Mentoring is the process of guiding an individual through thought and
practice. Cognitive mentoring is the addition of knowledge and wisdom to
the mix of mentoring practices in order to forge a broad establishment of
right thinking and its praxis - right doing. Mentoring is the
establishment of proper action by the mentor and the imitation of it by
the child.
For mentoring to be effective there must be a structure within which the
mentoring process is focused - where there is a set pattern of actions,
instructions, law, examples, and purpose. And this purpose must make sense
and be transmittable to the child. By way of socialization, an individual
can absorb the norms of a group and perform to one degree or another
according to the internal structure of a group - much the same as adapting
to one’s environment.

The training course covers both individualized child mentoring and family
mentoring - where group family socialization and norming environments must
be organized and designed to reinforce the cognitive mentoring by the
applying parent.
The group socialization process helps the child - individually and within
his / her own locus - to adjust and apply the cognitive benefit received
from their parent's mentoring to real life situations, therefore, his/her
own repertoire of schemata. Thus we have an individual who is adjusting
properly: correcting previous erroneous schemata with newly acquired ones
(cognitively mentored).
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